There are lots of things in life that we must learn how to deal with when it comes to first year pastorates. I have no doubt though learning to navigate through conflict has to be at the top of the list of learning how to cope and stay afloat in the life of the church. This especially exists in youth ministry. Conflict admidst students and their families is always something one will encounter working as a youth pastor. One of my old pastors lately has been dealing with how one should deal and navigate through conflict as Christians and how to deal with it biblically and in a Christ like manner in the life of the church. If you actually take the time to stop here, look here for what I have no doubt will be helpful to you and serve you well.